Friday, October 25, 2013

Life Goes On


It was a bad day at office.
Your exam score neither matched people’s expectation nor yours.
You are going through a bad break-up
Your parents are not able to fathom the needs of their teenage son/daughter

There are at times when you feel that the world does not understand you. 
Stage in life, where people around you no longer support in your endeavors. 
Moments, even though fleeting, where you doubt your own judgment. 

With each change in the season, there comes a new hope, a sense of anticipation, that things will change and that too for good. After night comes day. Nothing in this epoch tends to remain stagnate. Even after death, our body does not fail to change; it undergoes putrefaction. A dead piece of log, standing tall boulder, even the door-nail  all of them change. They decay; they whither and they rust with time. Nothing stays the same forever. Once this fact is accepted and well imbibed, the biggest battle has been won.

The only object that remains in the pertinent state of its own languish is a diamond, which in itself is nothing but a shinning object… an allure. But this attraction to the glass like object is all what it has. It is not able to change with the time, not able to fulfill the desire of your body or soul. All it carries with it is its coldness that can fizzle out the warmth and razor sharp edges which can cut through the soul. So tell me, is that what we need in life?

So when you are going through a rough patch, don’t get baffled. Life doesn’t hold any grudges against you. It ain’t going to say – hey you, I shall keep you in this state of persistent doom nor does it derive any pleasure in seeing you through this messy situation.

I have also found myself in those situations; times where I feel suffocated and not able to make my way through the troubled occasions. The next question that you would ask- how do I deal with it? Well the trick to deal here is not going to be same at every facet. Different perspectives are summoned upon to tread through this; however one thing that is to be underlined is your attitude. That’s what I am trying to emphasis, your approach to the life’s various trials and tribulation is not based to the level of its difficulty it throws at you, but to know that this moment is a passé. The next juncture is going to be different. 

So hold on. 
Just hold on. 
It’s going to be A Ok. 
Life goes on